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Family album
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Family album
February 22, 2013 Tatyana Voltskaya
We will never know how many children's destinies the anti -Sirot law distorted, since we do not know which children would have gained a family in America if they had not been forbidden to them. Officials will continue to sit in warm offices and, sorting through the pieces of paper, frowning the eyebrows severely: 650 thousand children in Russia are brought up outside the family. Yes, horror. But it’s not a horror-horror, since you can only look at such a figure from a bird’s flight, and you can’t see a bird's flight how each of these 650 thousand cries into a pillow every night and is waiting for a mother that will never come. You can continue the eagle flight, and narrow the circles-otherwise you will inadvertently notice how, somewhere there, in a deaf province, the older orphanages rape the younger ones, and then demonstratively put them from themselves in the dining room-like big ones. Like in prison.
Or imagine children who have already been said that they have their own home, however, not here, not in the best of the worlds, but in America. And these children, as luck would have it, have already seen their overseas dad and mom and, instead of crying at night in a pillow, they are waiting for their new parents with hope. But they won’t wait, because in the mysterious homeland a law came out, according to which we better proudly and uncontrollably bend the flowers of our lives in our native loam, but we will not give them to where they do not want to see our thieves and killers.
And if you completely go down from the heights and find yourself, for example, in St. Petersburg, it is easy to notice that in the city of three revolutions such children is exactly 33 souls. In the house of the child No. 13, on the Griboedov channel, there are 7 souls. This is not a completely ordinary child of a child, for several years an experiment has been going on. Petersburg psychologists, uniting with American colleagues, found that an abandoned child, living in a state-owned institution from birth, passes through many dozens of hands in 3-4 years, that they would not have time to arise in his attachment-to the same baby in a neighboring bed, to the nanny, to the teacher, as his little love is immediately crushed, not from evil, but because this The age to go to another room, then another one, to be transferred to other educators, the third, fourth, fifth. And the child has an emotional catastrophe, and they write in the card: a delay in mental development. And no matter how much they deal with him, he absorbs little, due to the lack of the main enzyme of children's success - love. The experiment is simple as an orange: let the child constantly communicate with two or three adults, living in the same room with constant neighbors-and he will overtake his peers who are thrown like a ball from hand to hand.
In a single house of the child No. 13, they understood this, and the children there do not look unhappy there. But the director Natalya Nikiforova, unlike Zhirinovsky, still does not believe that, even if an outstanding institution is the limit of dreams for young children. Therefore, the fact that seven of her pupils after the adoption of anti -Sirot law, most likely, will not see their American families, she took as personal grief. The child’s house, the children's ombudsman Svetlana Agapitova and even the Committee on Social Policy wrote in Moscow - what to do with 33 Petersburg orphans, asked to let them go, since they had almost families. Oh, it’s almost!
The first story, Timofey, 4 years, Down syndrome. Timofei already had a family: his foster parents came to him from America, spent four days with him, which, perhaps, would remain the only happy days in his life. He perfectly understood that this was his dad and mother, he fell in love with them, caught fire with hope, waited. Leaving, Andrew and Betani Nigel left him his family album - so that he could look at his relatives every day and rejoice. And he not only looked himself-as soon as someone went into the room, he immediately rushed to the shelf where the album was lying, and demanded to get him-show the guests to share his joy. But the law came out ...
“I took the album to my office,” says Natalya Nikiforova, “to injure Timofey less.” True, his parents did not surrender, they filed a complaint with the Strasbourg court, hoping that the refusal to give them a child, whom they had already met, will be recognized as a violation of the 8th article of the European Convention on Human Rights. If this does not happen, then the future of Timothy is loneliness, even on condition that he will fall into a very good boarding school. We have such children almost never find a family. ” The same future is waiting for two more children with Down syndrome living here: their potential American parents just began collecting documents.
History is second, Nikoloz, “Babochka child”, year and 7 months. In the language of science, this diagnosis is called bullous epidermolysis. In response to any touch, the skin swells with bloody bubbles, wounds are constant suffering and the need for very difficult and very expensive care. According to Natalia Nikiforova, special dressings for the “butterfly child” cost up to 150 thousand rubles a month. It is all the more amazing that for this baby in America there were foster parents: the Krupper family lives next door to his family who adopted the boy Anton from Moscow with the same diagnosis, and they realized that they could take care of such a child. The package of documents was already ready, dad and mom were waiting for permission to come ... Now they write to the child’s house, write everywhere - give us our Nikoloz, but they do not give it away.
The third story is Svetlana, 7 months, it lies at the Institute of Transplantalogy, its own liver from birth practically does not function, so only one can save the light - the liver transplant. In Russia, there is no register of donor authorities, transplantation is possible only from close relatives, and in Svetin a birth certificate in the column “dad” and “mother” is a dash. Therefore, in Russia, the chances of a girl for life are almost zero. In early December, parents in America were found for her, but with the release of anti -Sirot law, the collection of documents had to be stopped. Signing the law, Vladimir Putin signed the mortal sentence.
I do not want to pronounce this name - compared to the signing of this law, the act of Herostratus seems to me small hooliganism. It is unlikely that there will be such scales, but still if you imagine the temple of Artemis on one cup, and to another children's lives, I know that it will outweigh. And it's time to call a spade a spade: thousands of seriously ill Russian orphans the law deprives not only the family, it deprives them of their life. Both the authors and inspirers of this law, all who meekly adopted it and hastily signed it, should be called respectively - killers.
More recently, another story happened in St. Petersburg - the story of Denis: he was 2 years and 8 months old, the Russian adoptive parents refused him and his bouquet of diseases nine times. The court managed to give it to the American couple - Philip and Ann. Denis became attached to them in a few days that all the nannies were given a diva - they say that it was love at first sight. But when Anne, having finished all the formalities, came to pick up the boy, she was told that the prosecutor's office filed for a court decision. Fortunately, the children's ombudsman Svetlana Agapitova found out about this and quickly publicized this monstrous gesture in her meaningless anger, aimed at pulling Denis's only chance of normal life. And the dragon removed the claws. But he still holds 33 children tightly, who almost received a new family in America, and no one knows whether the claws will flash this time. If they do not flap, Timofey will never receive her family album again, and Svetlana will die.