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Yesterday, the son talked about the helpline.
He says people came to them, explained why he was needed. If parents swear, drink, fight, if you are hard, bad mood, some kind of trouble at school, call!
I thought that this is all the same? Help or control?
Punching the phone of the caller is not a problem. It turns out that the child will call and where they need to put a checkmark, and then, if they are “lucky” to register the family. So you can "take into account" and a completely prosperous family, well, in which family there is no misunderstanding? Everything happens. Does anyone have the right to interfere in this? I think no. But thanks to this method, it turns out that there is an intervention, invisible. Imagine the faces of the parents of the calling child, as at one point, organs will come to a completely prosperous family, at least for conversation. And no one will be interested in what purpose the child called. In order to “encourage” parents because of a bad mood, or because they did not buy their favorite toy. Children, you know, are still psychologists.
My opinion is this: under the guise of help, an “interesting” method of control and accounting arose, and even if necessary, a lever of influence on the family.
I think that this problem will not affect my family, because we are talking with children, listen to them, we are interested in their lives, which means that we ourselves are better than this helpline. And I’m sure that even if there are any misunderstandings in the family, then no one will call somewhere and take out the sung from the hut. But people are all different, someone does not have enough time to engage in children, a lot of work, and someone is loaded with domestic problems. But this is not a reason to interfere in this way into the family.