Mendelson march

Marry or not? The eternal question ... He wants, but she is not ready. She wants - he is not. Eternal problem. She dreamed all her life, and he ... eh ... the collapse of dreams. Goodbye a white dress ... Eh, and we could be so good together ...

Or not. They both agreed. But she, of course, wanted this much more. She had a plan that was honed for many years. In the end, he became perfect:

White, magnificent dress. Moreover, not some cheap dress, but a handmade dress: with pearls and embroidery. Necessarily a veil: long and beautiful, as in films. And shoes ... so elegant, strewn with stones or covered with a satin. She has a beautiful bouquet in her hands. In the ears - grandmother's old earrings. It is those who promised her all her life and said: when you get married, you will wear it. And in dreams this day was the most beautiful and most romantic. The groom wears her in her arms. After all, it should be. This is always shown in films. However, he is completely happy. After all, this, we do not forget, their long -awaited day. Their holiday.

Everything is thoughtful. Each trifle. This is the perfect day!

They (although, rather, she) always lived (rather lived) with this way.

She dreamed of being the most beautiful in the world that day. This is a dream! In dreams, you can, in echtes, everything can be. Everyone around looks only at her (it cannot be otherwise). And everyone is so envied by her. Without anger. Everyone just looks and thinks: lucky girl. And others, biting their lip, think: oh, it’s lucky to the guy, what a bride he has. Lucky.

And they are together, like angels: beautiful, bright, happy and he only looks at her.

All day is a collective image of fairy tales, films and long thoughts on the topic of love and romance.

And what happens in the end? Those who at least once married or simply were at a wedding - know.

They know that preparation, often, turns into a long -playing and non -miserable headache. It is very difficult to make a fairy tale. At every step, the groom and the bride are trying to "divorce money." And the problems climb from all the cracks! But this is not the worst. More worse than another: the fact that everything cannot go according to plan. Makeup artist and hairdresser will certainly do everything differently than in dreams. And not the fact that bad, just wrong! And all - the mood in the morning is not right. And life, mercilessly, makes amendments to each point. And due to the fact that a lot went wrong, and people collapsed for a long-term plan (and more often, of course, she) forget about the main thing-for which all this is done. Little things become a great tragedy. And ... everything was gone.

And now? Do not dream? No, why? It is necessary to dream. After all, life without a dream will be unbearable and boring. You just need to dream not about the dress and not about the day, but just about meeting your person. The one with whom the wedding will be a holiday not because everything is perfect, but simply because it is really your day. The day when both of you, unclear, said to each other: yes. And it will be the perfect day for you. Just because you feel good. What will be the dress, table, chair and flowers - nonsense. But remembering the main thing is very difficult. I saw a lot of pairs who did not work out.

But, it seems to me, we succeeded. We had an ideal wedding. The wedding, which we prepared exactly 12 days. But we managed to do everything as we wanted. But they did not want all their lives, but in this moment. As a result, everything went mentally, easily and fun. There were no long and tiring toasts, there were no stupid competitions. There were close and native people, a ship, live music and delicious food. Everything flew so quickly that I wanted to continue. And it really was one of the best days in life. One that cannot be planned. After all, when you plan, often, you do not know who will be next to you on this day.

It’s even a pity that everything has passed. But there were excellent memories, photos and gifts. By the way, gifts are a separate topic. Grandma gave a set of silver spoons. Who knows how old they are. These are not some precious spoons. But this is the most expensive gift. They lie in such an old box with a satin lining and the inscription "Uzuwortorg". When you take them in your hands, you understand that they already have their own, many years of story. And I want to continue it. I would like to celebrate our silver wedding with them. It seems to me that this is very symbolic. In the meantime, we will wait for our silver wedding, we go to someone else's, in the sense of the Kabaret Band, the silver wedding, they just come to Kyiv. After all, the wedding and everything that is connected with it is now my favorite holiday. A silver wedding is a dream. :)

I want to share our wedding photos. And for those who want to join and also go to the concert of a silver wedding - a link.