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Loser Syndrome
13:59, 20 March 2008 Do you think that everyone around you is living happily ever after and only your life looks like a prolonged black streak? It's all about your parents who didn't reveal your talents in time. Or in the husband who drove you into this situation. Or... Stop! Start with yourself. What did you do to attract good luck to yourself?
Reasons
Look for ends in childhood and adolescence. It was then that someone's opinion could influence you. For example, your parents constantly compared you with a more successful classmate, and the comparisons were often not in your favor. The fragile psyche of a child perceives such criticism very painfully, especially when shortcomings are pointed out to him in comparison with other children. Chronic self-doubt over time develops into loser syndrome, and the girl gives up her life.
Symptoms
The manifestation of dissatisfaction with life is noticeable already in appearance. Definitely a sour facial expression, a sullen look, carelessness in hairstyle and clothes. Ungroomed hands and often lack of makeup. She has long lost the habit of making efforts, because “she still has no luck.” The lack of personal life is covered up by a career. But at work she is also in no hurry to express herself: she is indifferent and inert to everything. The house is uncomfortable, and she spends her free time on the couch.
Treatment
It only seems from the outside that everything falls from the sky for the lucky ones. In fact, luck is everyday work. You have to fight for it, and most importantly, you have to really want it.
If you got up on the wrong foot in the morning, you don’t like the weather outside, the neighbors are disturbing your sleep with their renovations, stupid children are annoying and everything is falling out of hand, know: today is a lost day for you and you are unlikely to be lucky. Luck comes only to those who are ready to welcome it hospitably.
10 ways to attract good luck
1 When you wake up, imagine that you are a happy person, and believe that you will definitely be lucky.
2 Compare your desires with your capabilities. If you do not have an ear for music, then you will waste your energy by entering a music school, but it is quite possible that you will turn out to be a talented artist. Open up and accept what nature has given you.
3 Define specifically what you want. Voice it out, or even better, draw it and hang it in a visible place.
4 Look at the world positively. One woman, having ordered a pie in a restaurant, was annoyed by its quality, but instead of causing a scandal, she went to the chef and offered her own recipe. She eventually landed a position as a dessert consultant.
5 Treat criticism constructively. If it contains a grain of truth, work on yourself and your mistakes, and if you consider it an empty insult, immediately throw it out of your head.
6 When comparing yourself with others, interpret everything in your favor. A friend bought a fur coat, but your figure is slimmer, her husband earns more, but yours is at home more often.
7 In moments when it seems to you that everything is bad for you, remember that many have much less than you, but continue to live and rejoice.
8 Write down in your diary all the compliments and good words that people say to you, and re-read them in moments of despondency.
9 Don't focus on one thing. If it didn't work out, try something else.
10 Be interested in the world around you. Go visit, be open to new acquaintances, travel, study, improve your skills, take courses, read books. Be active, and luck will follow!
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ReasonsLook for ends in childhood and adolescence. It was then that someone's opinion could influence you. For example, your parents constantly compared you with a more successful classmate, and the comparisons were often not in your favor. The fragile psyche of a child perceives such criticism very painfully, especially when shortcomings are pointed out to him in comparison with other children. Chronic self-doubt over time develops into loser syndrome, and the girl gives up her life.
Symptoms
The manifestation of dissatisfaction with life is noticeable already in appearance. Definitely a sour facial expression, a sullen look, carelessness in hairstyle and clothes. Ungroomed hands and often lack of makeup. She has long lost the habit of making efforts, because “she still has no luck.” The lack of personal life is covered up by a career. But at work she is also in no hurry to express herself: she is indifferent and inert to everything. The house is uncomfortable, and she spends her free time on the couch.
Treatment
It only seems from the outside that everything falls from the sky for the lucky ones. In fact, luck is everyday work. You have to fight for it, and most importantly, you have to really want it.
If you got up on the wrong foot in the morning, you don’t like the weather outside, the neighbors are disturbing your sleep with their renovations, stupid children are annoying and everything is falling out of hand, know: today is a lost day for you and you are unlikely to be lucky. Luck comes only to those who are ready to welcome it hospitably.
10 ways to attract good luck
1 When you wake up, imagine that you are a happy person, and believe that you will definitely be lucky.
2 Compare your desires with your capabilities. If you do not have an ear for music, then you will waste your energy by entering a music school, but it is quite possible that you will turn out to be a talented artist. Open up and accept what nature has given you.
3 Define specifically what you want. Voice it out, or even better, draw it and hang it in a visible place.
4 Look at the world positively. One woman, having ordered a pie in a restaurant, was annoyed by its quality, but instead of causing a scandal, she went to the chef and offered her own recipe. She eventually landed a position as a dessert consultant.
5 Treat criticism constructively. If it contains a grain of truth, work on yourself and your mistakes, and if you consider it an empty insult, immediately throw it out of your head.
6 When comparing yourself with others, interpret everything in your favor. A friend bought a fur coat, but your figure is slimmer, her husband earns more, but yours is at home more often.
7 In moments when it seems to you that everything is bad for you, remember that many have much less than you, but continue to live and rejoice.
8 Write down in your diary all the compliments and good words that people say to you, and re-read them in moments of despondency.
9 Don't focus on one thing. If it didn't work out, try something else.
10 Be interested in the world around you. Go visit, be open to new acquaintances, travel, study, improve your skills, take courses, read books. Be active, and luck will follow!
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