Experiments in bed

Sexologists say that due to stiffness in bed, feelings for a partner can disappear in the first years of marriage. If you want to experiment, don’t be shy to admit it to your husband. <br />

Sexologists say that due to stiffness in bed, feelings for a partner can disappear in the first years of marriage. If you want to experiment, don’t be shy to admit it to your husband.

Do you want...

Many of us are in no hurry to identify our true sexual desires. Indeed, it is difficult to open up to your partner for the first time. It's all due to Puritan upbringing.

In fact, there are plenty of ways to admit to your partner that you want to experiment in bed. The most effective of them is to report the dream you just had. Tell me that you dreamed about how you and your husband had, for example, anal sex. Look at his reaction when you finish the story. Even if the husband blushed and looked away, this does not mean that he does not want to repeat this in reality. For many men, even if they desperately want something, banal shyness can get in the way.

If there is no reaction, return to the topic again after a while. Just tell me that you read about the benefits of sexual experiments in bed in a women's magazine. Men believe that there is a lot of indecent content in gloss, but they also know that it is all useful and quite interesting.

If you experimented once, in the future do not hesitate to tell your man about your new desires. In the smallest details! Many men love it when women entice them to play dirty. And they feel excited just from words alone. If you see that your man is already ready, you can start the experiment first.

He wants...

If a man is the first to suggest having fun in bed, don’t be indignant. Listen carefully to your partner. It is quite possible that you will really like his ideas. Remember that many men perceive categorical refusal very painfully. At the same time, they may think for a long time why you refused him. And sometimes their thoughts lead to quite sad consequences.

However, you shouldn’t follow his lead. If you are not happy with something, be sure to let him know. After all, original desires can be corrected. And it’s better to do this not during sex, but before it. Showing up during lovemaking will not lead to anything good.

If your partner strongly insists on experiments, and you don’t want to, do them just once. Many of us, refusing, for example, anal or oral sex, having tried it only once, can no longer imagine our lives without it.