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What is a Dagestan man afraid of?
Dagestan men are so harsh that... But is this really so? In fact, the system of fears of the Dagestani is multipolar and quite stable. I'll explain why.
Of course, any Dagestani, within the limits of statistical error, will naturally say that he is not afraid of anything. But this would be cunning. Our brother is afraid. Not physical suffering, not ozone holes, spiders, atomic bombs, war on two fronts, information blockade. No, no, no! Everything is quite simpler. A man’s fears lie on a completely different plane.
I assure you, it’s a matter of education, responsibility and self-esteem. Three pillars that give us starting points. We don't need to invent new trajectories.
Disgrace. Contempt. Main fear. Systemic. Soaked with blood. There is nothing worse for a man than disrespect and shame. You can lose an important argument or match, battle, fuck everything in the world, including your house, girlfriend (wife) and car, but the main thing is to remain in the eyes of others man in black. That is, in the “honor and respect” mode. And if they say a word for you, and in the neighborhood they say that you are the right kid, you can handle anything, you can overcome anything. Image warms not only the soul. Image works for you. It doesn't matter how or when. It is easier to lose a reputation than to create it, said Samuel Butler. Today's Dagestani blindly follows this rule and adds: “If you do it normally, it will be fine.”
Tears. The man is pathologically afraid of tears. Our own. Strangers. Especially women's ones. He is completely unfamiliar with tears and does not understand what to do with them, how to react... Tears are more a feminine thing. A whole art that a man, as a rule, is not familiar with. A man can know how the Neapolitan Camorra differs from the Latin American Mara Salvatrucia, how the image of Cressida was interpreted differently by Boccaccio, Chaucer, Robert Henryson and Shakespeare, extract the square root in his mind and talk about the dangers and benefits of autoimmune drugs, but he knows nothing about tears. Absolutely nothing.
Go to hell. Amazing property! The Dagestani has at the same time a craving (magnetic downright) for tyranny, recklessness, a desire to destroy and go beyond (what is, that is, you must agree) and bravado... and an amazing fear of the otherworldly. We are terribly afraid of going to hell and this is the same cold shower that sometimes has a sobering effect. And the person wonders what he will say Up There when he is asked about his sins. Unfortunately, for true adherents of chaos this is not the strongest argument. “I want to go to heaven, but there are more people I know in hell” - this is what, unfortunately, many people think about when they go out onto the porch in the morning. Those especially knowledgeable quote Shakespeare: “Hell is empty. All the devils are here.”
No children. Fine mental tuning in such cases fails and all the light becomes darkness. The desire to be a father is something that a Dagestani does not need to instill. The Dagestani has been dreaming about how he will play with his child (“it doesn’t matter what gender the child will be, the main thing is that the boy is healthy!”) in hide and seek, football, or going to watch a match at the stadium. 15, well, okay, from about 18 years old.
Poverty. Everyone is afraid of her. The topography of the Dagestani consciousness gives a clear answer: family wealth is a primary concern... not to mention the car that every representative of the stronger sex dreams of. If all this results in a black Priora being planted and driving around the city at night in search of adventurous cataclysms and man-made disasters, then we are not talking about buffoonery (one of the main vices of a Dagestan man, about which it is worth writing a treatise or a scientific dissertation). A man who strives to subjugate time and money and thinks more about how to feed his family is pathologically afraid of poverty.
Women. On the one hand, why be afraid of them? And who will admit it? However, everyone has a subconscious fear of being misunderstood, rejected, unpopular... And yes... they sometimes behave so strangely... they speak in that same hateful tone of “women of progressive views.” It has long been no secret that in the presence of a woman, a man often feels like a fool. And this feeling is very lousy. The fear derived from women is the fear of family ties. In my opinion, comments are unnecessary here.
Be known as stingy. The Dagestan man, with rare exceptions, is a priori generous. A dubious quality for the family budget and savings, exceptional luck for a girl who has designs on a man. In addition, even a minor rumor between friends that “Maga is a miser” can completely destroy a person’s reputation.
Be stupid. This is probably where we should have started. After all, here is both a statement of fact (well, who is not afraid of being stupid - only a really stupid person) and a wish. There is nothing more shameful for a man than buffoonery.