Mercy - men's work

For the first time in this thought, I caught myself in Chechnya: why there is a committee of soldiers 'mothers, but there are no committee of soldiers' fathers.

Soldiers' mothers annoyed me, I found their work destructive, loud, stupid. Today I am not so categorical. These mothers followed their ideas about what good is and what is evil. They were afraid for their children, and their fear was active.

Ultimately, they committed many feats: they went to negotiations to the real militants, asked, lifted, bought their children, and saved many. And the fact that they interfered under the feet of the Russian army - so, in addition to mothers, there were much more serious enemies, and they lived, as a rule, in the Kremlin corridors.

“They committed many feats: they went to negotiations to the real militants, asked, lured, bought their children, saved many”

In general, there was something to do to the fathers: if you want to go to Chechnya, you want to go to the Kremlin, but not sleep, dad.

I have no idea when this type of modern man who lives in the sofa area did not like to fuss in Russia and mainly divides the sphere of active life into two subspecies: a) this is not my business; b) This is not a male business.

You can talk about the fact that these same “soldiers' mothers” create such men - but we will not to blame this topic now.

Everything is as it is. The woman is constantly on the front line.

She gives birth to a man, she brings up a man, she looks after everything. Behind the cradle, behind Lyalka, behind the house, behind the forest, for all other good. Actually, the front where men are generally difficult to consider - this is, for example, charity.

I personally know two women who do this - Chulpan Khamatova and Avdotya Smirnov. We are a little familiar with Chulpan, we are friends with Dunya. What they do is ... I wanted to write "Adova" work, but the word seemed inappropriate. This is a very hard work. I tried to find a comparison with some purely male work and thought that probably their classes-if you delve into what the daily activities of these women look like (funds, officials, papers, parents, children, inertness, horror, pain)-you can compare the degree of physical costs with the work of truckers. Especially when the trucker has a huge car broke in the middle of the forest, in the winter, in a snowstorm and a cold, and there he repairs it, being late everywhere. Repaired and repaired. He froze his fingers, and ... he froze everything. And no one will come to the rescue.

You can brutalize and lose faith in humanity with such work. I won’t tell you what Dunya told me about my affairs, and about Chulpan's concerns.

And they, in the end, are not long -players, but young, beautiful and very talented women. Maybe the most talented women in our country today are in the profession that they seem to have the main one. That is, they could well “realize themselves in art”, and no one would have asked them for anything. But they asked themselves.

"I do not know a man who is engaged in the salvation of children (dogs, disabled people, migrants," conscripts ")"

I do not know a single man who is engaged in the salvation of children (dogs, disabled people, migrants, “conscripts”). Probably, they are, however ... rarely meet, rarely. However, I guess that one of my friends is doing something like that. But he is a former bandit, most likely, the killer - so he has his own motives. Do not get to hell, for example.

Is it really a man before saving someone, you need to kill someone? You can’t somehow pass this stage and immediately move on to salvation? I am sincerely convinced that due to the fact that the best cooks, the best astronauts, the best designers and the best soldiers are obtained from men - they will be the best in this matter.

"Is it really a man before saving someone, you need to kill someone?"

In the end, it is necessary to take away from a woman and this right - to be considered a priori more kind and merciful.

Oh, you do not know what kind of men there are. Their kindness can melt the ice (in a good way, not in environmental) and warm many, many suffering. A man - he is large, hot, fluffy - like a Senbernar, like three senbernars, he will turn any blockage and find a kitten, or who is there.

Remember the monument to the liberator soldier in Berlin, with a child in his arms? Here it is a sample. I believe in a man.

My most difficult performance happened somewhere near Ulan-Ude, in an orphanage.

I was offered to talk to the children there - I could not refuse. There was a hope that at least the children would be relatively grown - then it would be easier for me. He arrived and gasped - my listeners and viewers turned out to be from two to six years old.

I am used to communicating with a much more adult audience, to confess. But he pulled himself together and went to them. Word for a word, talked, remembered some kind of fairy tales-delusions, gradually cheered them. Perhaps they did not understand half of what I told them, but they definitely understood that the uncle was kind.

After half an hour, they all sat on my knees, hugged them by the neck and kissed somewhere in the ear, asking with a whisper: “Do you really love children?” True, I love.

Some women worked in the orphanage, and they praised me very much later. Sincerely, I saw. With sincere surprise: where did you, they say, learned this? The head of the orphanage, calm, a little (or not almost?) The tired woman looked at me for a long time, and, it seems, I guessed what she wanted to say. “And come to us to work” - that's what. But she knew that she would not come, and did not want idle words. I don’t know if I can ever work in an orphanage: in the end, I have not grown my four yet. But I guess what I can do. What is in my power now.

My brothers, men. Until the war began, let's do something good. We will still have time to do evil. It's never too late. Whether then there will be time for good, that’s the question.

As it turns out, in order to create a good, you need not so much kindness. Much more strength is needed. Strength and courage.

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