Algorithms of optimal happiness

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Whatever one may say, no matter how much we deny, the psychology of personality is interested in everyone. I propose some “rules” formulated by our contemporary Ernest Tsvetkov. To agree - to disagree with them is your right, but the fact that they perfectly help in difficult situations, in situations of hopelessness, exorbitant mental fatigue, this is a fact. The approach to stereotypical life situations is somewhat strange. But why is it strange? No one calls you to behave so constantly. Although ... why not ... when to use these algorithms, in what situation to contact them, everyone decides for himself.

The code of optimal behavior gives a true algorithm of behavior that you may accept or not accept. But to think, to reflect on these algorithms will definitely not be superfluous.

* "You know the rules, but you do not know all the rules by which the world lives. The world is sophisticated, but not malicious."

*Optimistic statement “ Do not worry about yourself. In fact, the universe is too valid for you to disappear in vain ”and you are not always believed in this concern. Of course, you can doubt this statement and the thought to often return to the thoughts of the concern of the Universe of us, about each of us. How does this mechanism of “care” work, and is this mechanism an analogy of a person’s appeal with prayers to God or something else, unknown to us?

When we are looking for information, she just comes to us. I think that everyone in practice has encountered such an inexplicable fact. Also, the protection mechanism works approximately ... After all, we sometimes do not even assume that it is really better for us! The focus of consideration of their personal problems is sometimes incorrectly chosen by us. How the perception of physical objects (property of space) changes depending on the angle of consideration, as well as when considering the life situation, its assessment may change. Good or evil happened - life will judge!

• You cannot know that good, evil.
• But know for sure: imposed good is evil.
• You do not know what the universe is needed.
• If you are right, then you are wrong.
• There is no what is called correctly and incorrectly, you are unknown that there is something.
• There is no bad, there is something that grieves you.
• There is no good, there is something that pleases you.
• The universe is too great for you to damage it.
• Perhaps your mistakes are what the universe needs.
• Your mistakes will not destroy the universe.
• Do not look for the truth, it is not. And if it is, then you do not need it.
• Do not look for meaning in life, if it exists, then lies beyond its borders.
• How do you determine the purpose of what you are doing? And does it belong to you?
• Do not worry for yourself. In fact, the universe is too cherished for you to disappear in vain.
• Do not look for your guilt. There is nothing of your fault.
• Do not worry about what path you are directing another - do you know how true, what false?
• If what you are doing is difficult for you, think if you need it.
• Do only what is given to you the easiest way, but do it with all your might.
• If you do something by chance, you do it on purpose.
• Support what you like and slip away from what you don't like.
• If you can correct the consequences of your mistake, then you have not yet been mistaken.
• What happens happens on time.
• Sometimes the search for the right solution will cost you more than error.
• What is happening happens in addition to your will, but in your will to accept whether it is or not to accept.
• If you doubt the road, take a fellow traveler, if you are sure, move alone.
• To be strong is to be lonely.
• Strong stronger of all alone. You yourself can choose what to be.
• Each person is lonely.
• Strong accepts and blesses his loneliness. The weak runs from him.
• Be calm and attentive to the world, then you will not miss a moment of power.
• When you try to learn about yourself from others, you give them power over yourself. Therefore, be the measure of what is happening to you.
• Bless the missed opportunities, you have gained great opportunities.
• Give it easy
  Lost - easy
  Goodbye - easy.
• Do not regret that there was little joy, this will acquire another sadness.
• Love the enemy - to win.
• If the enemy found you by surprise, and you are still alive - he is in your hands.
• The losing the situation, the worse it is.
• Do not be afraid of the one who is trying to break your will, for he is weak.
• True revenge is to neglect.
• Giveled, you withstand the test. Give in - to weaken the resistance.
• Do not strive to be stronger than the opponent, but look where the rival is weaker than you.
• When you love your enemy, you better recognize him. The more you recognize him, the more advantage you get over it.
• You can not always win, but you can always make yourself invincible. Victory depends on the enemy. Invincibility - from itself.
• Whatever your rival, always try to see a person in him. And soon you will be convinced that such an approach gives you a huge advantage.
• To taste and get enough - each of this has its own pleasure, but do not mix them.
• You know the rules, but you do not know all the rules by which the world lives. The world is sophisticated, but not malicious.
• There are people, staying next to whom destroys you. This does not mean that they are bad. This means that being next to them destroys you.
• There are people next to whom the stay strengthens you and makes you stronger. This does not mean that they are good. This means that being next to them strengthens you.
• Be attentive to yourself at the moment when you communicate with others. And it will become clear to you who is who.
• Avoid communicating with the first and strive for communication with the second. If this does not work, then avoid friendship at all.
• Do you get what you are doing?
• When the fire is approaching, it shines first, then
  Heats, and then burns.
• Now you are immortal, for not yet died.
• Do not scare curses, do not strive for praises, they will not bring you anything new.
• You create anxiety and anxiety when you measure success in a measure of praise or censure.
• Do not think about where to go further when you are in the middle of the hanging bridge.
• When doing - do it now, then you will never do it again
• You can never say where you go, just - where you hope to come.
• Do not fight. For you inevitably become what you fight against.
• Remember the law of the thirteenth blow.
  If one day the clock was pierced thirteen times instead of the set twelve, then such hours should be thrown away, no matter what guarantee was given regarding their repair.
• Any behavior consists of opposites. If you do something and try too much, then sooner or later the opposite of this appears. Any excessive desire produces its opposite.
• Too much strength leads to the opposite result.
• The wise leader does not form an event, but allows you to turn around the process himself. If some situation seems difficult for you, give it to yourself. Provided to herself, she is resolved by itself.
• The wise leader does not block the process with a strict task and does not force the event to develop in a certain way.
• Do not rush the event. Let the process turn around yourself. Silence is a great source of power.
• Leave people periodically and return to silence. Learn to return to yourself.
• Silence and a clear sense of being are sources of any effective action.
• Silence and empty space reveal your mood. This is the field of your being. The power field of being.
• Strive to be truly interested in himself. This will teach you dedication.
• Listen rather easily than zealously. Leave efforts spent on listening to each word. Immerse yourself in your inner silence and watch yourself. Then you will open the possibility of clear thinking in you.
• Know your innermost depths, and you can talk to the depths of another.
• When you are freed from the fact that you are, you become who you can be.
• When you are free from what you have, you get what you need.
• When you feel the most destroyed, know that you are at the beginning of the growth period.
• When you do not want anything, he will come to you a lot.
• When you leave attempts to inspire, you will become quite impressive.
• The true ability of influence is not based on technical techniques or management set. Stay in being, not doing.
• Remember the secret wisdom: give it to achieve
• Excessive attempts lead to reverse results.
• Being in being, not doing. Use the formula: to be -do -make up.
  If you want to create something, ask: what should I do for this? But do not rush to do, do not repeat the mistakes of many-those who are trying to fussyly do something, but do not achieve anything. Step back another step, by the beginning of the formula and again ask: what should I be for this? And stay in being. And doing will be done by itself, without your participation. But you will get a clear, concrete result, exactly the one you wanted to create. This is the core of magic.
• For anyone who is in being, nothing needs to be done, but everything is done.
• Know where you are standing and know what you are for. This is your basis.
• The magician does not defend and does not attack. His touch on the world is easy, almost elusive.
• Clarify your goal. Then you can achieve it without fuss.
• Observe natural processes. They have power and strength, because they just exist. The movement of the planets, the light of the sun, the attraction of the earth. In accordance with these principles, your body also works. Freedom comes when you begin to obey
  When you are, outside the events, meditate on the question: what happens when nothing happens?
• There is no difference between what happens and how it happens.
• Learn to be the driven - in order to learn how to lead others.
• Your influence begins with you and spreads further, like ripples on the water.
• Stay neutral and do not take a drawing position.
• Trust what is happening. Take what is happening.
  Trusting and accepting, you retain strength.
• The formula of power is the management formula. The art of management is based on comprehension of this formula.
• If you want to manage many, imagine that you control the few. Strive in a large one to see the small one, and control them. It is easier to manage the same people than different people. People seeking a common goal are easier to manage than people who do not have a common goal. It is easier to manage people with a common enemy than having different enemies.
  Divide large into a small number of parts. And you will get small. Do it without effort. And what would be divided by itself, without your participation. To manage effectively, make people the same. But skill to make people the same grows from the ability to see them different.
• Be a master, not a guest. The owner is one who permits or does not allow, allows or does not allow. He is not the one who asks, but the one who is asked. Not the one who needs, but the one in whom they need. Not the one who goes, but the one to whom they go, the guest is the one who asks permission to come or enter. The one who asks. Who needs. Who comes, and who asks for a meeting.
  If you have a meeting, try to hold it on your territory. Let them come to you. But if you find yourself in the position of the guest, change with the owner places. Much depends on the internal position. To be a master, rather an internal position than external.
• The arguing one is always a petitioner. Stamously, he asks that his arguments be treated with interest.
  Therefore, the arguing guest.
• Avoid a dispute and do not let the debator involve you. Do not become an accomplice of one stupidity.
• Anyone who starts the dispute is obviously in a weak position, because he is, although an unspoken, but a petitioner.
• Think about the power that is behind you, and then this force will actually stand behind you.
• Stay indifferent to any messages. Do not be likened to the king, who executed the messenger for bad news. Strength is indifferent. The world obeys this force.
  Learn to distinguish between reversible and irreversible - and you will learn to own time.
• Let them become your teachers for a while:
  Darkness. Nothing is impossible to see it.
  Thunder. Do not predict. Who will hit and who will amaze.
  Fire. Nearby is warm, but when approaching it burns.
  Learn unpredictability and inaccessibility.
• Your best teacher is your path. No need to look for the teacher, he is nearby.
  His presence here. You just have to open and see it.
• Differently empty and solid.
  The quality of the hard is support.
  The quality of empty is unreliability.
  Solid is information that you can believe. This is a person you can rely on. The promise that will be fulfilled. A car that will start and go in a timely manner. The order that will be completed. A word that will be heard and understood. Solid is what gives the result. The empty is information that is not reliable. An unreliable ally. Renoving friend. Lazy worker. Disger manager. Unfulfilled promise. The interaction of solid and empty gives an empty one.
• Grandfather gave his grandson to strangers to study the craft. However, they did not teach him craft, but forced him to work for themselves. Yes, at the same time, they treated him still. And so, when it became completely painful, the boy wrote a letter where he begged to pick it up, but the address wrote an uncontrolled one to the village of grandfather. Such a letter will never reach.
  The letter itself is solid, but the address is empty. The result is empty. If in the business you have conceived at least one element is empty, then all efforts will be in vain.
• When something does not add up to you, look for where the empty one.
  Separate the solid from the empty inside yourself.
• Your best teacher is your path. No need to look for the teacher, he is nearby.
  His presence here. You just have to open and see it.
• Strive to feel your path. The path is the greatest manager. If you know your path, then good luck and failures equally advance you forward.
• You cannot distinguish good luck from failure until you survive until tomorrow.

Are there any objections? Do you think that these algorithms are beneficial for you?