
Without tears and experiences. The most dry and only facts. Mitya Aleshkovsky tells about the bedridden disabled people chained to the bed until the end of life
Help Karitas in Siberia helpOn May 2, 2012, in the Siberian city of Ishim, the Galitsyn family, like all residents of Russia, celebrated May holidays.
“Well, not to say that it was the first of May that we celebrated or the day of spring. Everyone notes, and we noted - says Tatyana Galitsyna - we sat a family. The daughter came, her husband’s sister, and, of course, Volodya himself. ”
Volodya (Vladimir Petrovich Galitsyn, born in 1962) - a beautiful, healthy man, a former teacher of physical education. In the eighties he wore a dashing hairstyle, had an athletic physique, loved to work with children. He married Tatyana, whom he met at school, where she studied at “B”, and he is in the “A” class. Together live 31 years.
Then, on the second of May, Volodya after lunch went out to smoke behind the fence of his one -story house.
“The neighbor passed by, mine went with him to sit, smoke a cigarette,” Tatyana recalls. - After a few minutes, another came up. I went out and called Volodya to return to the table, they had not yet had time to eat the cake and drink tea. Go back, I say, the family is waiting. ”
The next time Tatyana saw her husband already with a broken head and in a state of the deepest coma.
The head of the patronage service in Ishim Irina Latyntseva and Vladimir Galitsyn Photo: Dmitry Markov for TDAs the investigation established, the neighbors called Vladimir Petrovich to drink with them, but he, refusing, quarreled with them and went home to the family. At this moment, he was hit on the head with a blunt object (presumably, an iron pipe) and caused a severe traumatic brain injury.
“He did not expect any danger, this is our neighbor, his own man. Well, they had a fight, they spoke something else there, but he’s his own,-looking at the floor, says Tatyana. - turned and went home, and he from his back, but on the head ... "
The fortune of Vladimir was so serious that 24 days after the attack he was in a state of artificial coma until the local doctors decided to get rid of a hopeless patient.
“They have some of their own standard, they explained to me in the hospital,” says Tatyana, “you can’t occupy a bed in intensive care for more than 24 days. So they said - if you want to extend his stay in a coma, pay. I didn't even ask how much. Probably, if I asked, they would call me an exact amount. But I did not ask. And when they began to get it out of a coma, an apart struck happened, and he, well, as if to explain it more precisely, hovered between a coma and life. ”
For three years now, Vladimir has been completely paralyzed and chained to the bed. Legs and arms became thin as knitting needles, only the skin and bones, the stomach fell, the probe stuck out of the nose for feeding, in the neck of the tracheostoma, and a medical suction is near the bed. In a lying patient, you can hardly find out the former handsome man from family photographs. Sometimes Vladimir begins to cough and suffocate, then Tatyana with the skill of an experienced nurse turns on the device and helps her husband gets rid of sputum, which does not come out of the lungs. The lower lip is snapped, the hair has become rare and short, only the eyes move in Vladimir.
Vladimir Galitsyn with his wife (left) and daughter (right) Photo: From a personal archive“I don’t know if he sees me and hears me, but I always talk to him like a person. Yes, Volodenka? Yes?" - says Tatyana loudly, leaning to the bed and looking her husband right into the eyes. Vladimir blinks twice, then one, then the pupils begin to walk from side to side.
“When we were discharged from the hospital, they were sent to a boarding school. He lay there for another 22 days, I came to him constantly, but there was no concern for him there. He was lying in a common chamber with others with the same sick, and took care of him only occasionally. Then I realized that I had to take my husband home. But how!? What will he lie on, how will he eat, how to wash it, how to go to the toilet? I did not know anything and did not know how.
I was in a trance, I was completely alone, I was very scared, I did not understand what to do, where to go, ”Tatyana tells about the time after the attack on her husband. - I did not understand who we need, who will help us. Friends, who also have a lying relative, talked about Karitas’s patronage service, well, I called. And there they already taught me and how to change Volodenka, how to feed him, how to wash, they supported me all the time, reassured, brought a bed with a mattress, help diapers and diapers. And we bought the suctioner ourselves. ”
In the room by Vladimir and Tatyana, everything is equipped according to the rules: the multifunctional bed can be approached from several sides to facilitate the care of the patients, Tatyana changes the probe for feeding regularly, her husband does not have a sip, at the time of my visit, Tatyana was just finishing him to wash.
“If you wash it in the evening and put on your feet to put on your feet, he sleeps better, for some reason he likes it like that,” Tatyana explains the departed from work and completely devoted himself to the care of her husband.
Having covered Vladimir to the very chin, his wife leaves him motionless to lie on the bed. And on the floor, as if mocking, a fluffy cat stretches and wriggles. A tear is slowly flowing from the edge of Vladimir’s eyes, but Tatyana, noticing something was amiss, immediately wipes her husband's face.
Tatyana and Vladimir Galitsyn photo: Dmitry Markov for TDWhether Vladimir is conscious or not, it is so to the end and it is not clear to doctors or his wife.
Leaving the Galitsyn house, I look out the street. Here Vladimir smoked with a neighbor. Here, through the house, this neighbor lived. Now he was in prison, awarded him three and a half years and five hundred thousand compensation. Three years of the deadline have already passed, he will soon be free and will again live in a neighboring house. Again it will walk past the window of the room in which the crippled Vladimir lies. Half a million rubles, of course, did not return. He has no work and property, and he refused to work in prison.
I look at all this and understand that everyone has such a neighbor. I understand that everyone could smoke with him that day. And everyone could get a pipe on the head.
In Russia, on every street and in every house there is a lying patient. Moving along Ishim, you can leave one house and enter the neighboring one, and there will certainly be a ward of the Karitas patronage service. In 2015, 1931 services were provided at the sixtieth thousandth Ishim in 2015. Primary appeals - 506, repeated - 1040, issued for temporary use 135 rehabilitation agents. It turns out that every sixtieth resident of Ishim is a ward of patronage service.
In Russia, on every street and in every house there is a lying patient Twist this quote for strokes alone in our country more than half a million, and there are still victims of an accident, even the old people who are here and there jump on the street, then at home and break the hips of the hips. Someone breaks their heads, someone breaks the spine in production or just in the entrance.
It is a shame to admit, but it is necessary: when a disabled person is discharged from the hospital, in order to get any help from the state, the disabled person is obliged to prove that he is a disabled person. How? On your own, go through a medical commission from several doctors who will determine that you are really sick, really disabled, the first (the most difficult), the second or third group.
After the commission, it is necessary to issue the IPR (individual rehabilitation plan). This is a document in which the commission determines which programs and means of rehabilitation are necessary for a particular person. Say, a wheelchair, a folding ramp in the porch, a steam chair, walkers, cane. And if the patient is lying, then the diapers are needed, absorbing diapers. But most importantly, a special bed and a special mattress are needed, because if a lying patient spends for a long time on a regular sofa, then he quickly has undergraduates, which entail constant and painful pain. To get any help from the state, the disabled is obliged to prove that he is disabled Twist this quote
It is no less embarrassing and completely wild to admit that even after passing all bureaucratic conventions, the disabled person does not immediately receive help from the state.
Firstly, it is only possible to get that a commission consisting of doctors who often never saw the patient was defined in the IPR as the means necessary for rehabilitation. The commission decides that two diapers per day need a person or three. Twice a day, he can go to the toilet or three. A soulless attitude is brought to prohibitive heights-one patient, 49-year-old trucker from Omsk Sergey Korotyuk, whom I visited later, the commission appointed as a means for rehabilitation the bed, but did not appoint a mattress. Another patient, Nadezhda Bukreeva, which has been paralyzed for 18 years, has not yet been prescribed a special bed.
Secondly, even if an expensive bed or walkers, a cane, diapers or a wind chair are still appointed by a commission, then the patient may not receive them earlier than a tender for a state purchase. Nadezhda Artemyevna Pestova, born in 1930, a resident of Ishim, a veteran of labor, who worked the whole war since 11 years, lays his medals and congratulatory letters on his knees from the president, government and governor, in which officials have been congratulating a woman on a festival of great victory and thanks to his contribution to the victory over fascism, and tells me that, breaking the bil Bones, she waited for an elementary armchair for eight months.
Nadezhda Artemyevna Pestov photo: Dmitry Markov for TDIt is a shame to realize that a person who has given all his life for the benefit of his homeland, from his homeland gets the opportunity to go to the toilet only eight months after he became incompetent.
But lying patients are not only old people. In Ishim, I visited the young Azamat, the only one of all to whom social protection provided a land chair just a month after he got into an accident. But this is most likely for the reason that in the house where Azamat lives with his father, and before with his wife (who threw him immediately after he became disabled), there is simply no soul or toilet. Convenience only in the yard. Trying to imagine it for myself. In winter. In Siberia. From the second floor. Lying patient.
Valery Skorobogatov with his wife (left) and Irina Latyntseva (right) while visiting the patronage service photo: Dmitry Markov for TDI also visited 54-year-old Valery Skorobogatov, not at all an old man. Half of his body is paralyzed, but with the help of his wife and employees of the patronage service he tries to walk with a cane around the room.
There was also 56-year-old Nikolai Nikolayevich Menshikov, who had an accident of a former engineer of the road construction department.
“He was given to me“ a corpse, ”says my wife Irina Dmitrievna,“ he did not go, did not turn, did nothing, they thought that he would not live long. ”
-What, what?! - The corpse responds from the bed.
“I’m sleeping with him every night, I have it, I’m changing it, I take care of him, went out, I started talking,“ A little, really. ” He does not remember almost nothing, he remembers how he got into an accident, does not remember that his mother died, how he buried her, I tell him again, he is worried every time again.
“It would be better to go faster,” the voice of Nikolai Nikolaevich came out of the bed, “then I would not be tormented now.” Here at least go crazy, I don’t remember anything. Anyway, nothing good, in short, there is no ...
Nikolai Menshikov with his wife photo: Dmitry Markov for TDIt is a shame to realize that every sixtieth resident of Ishim has been waiting for elementary assistance from the state for months. Joy and hope brings the idea that help still comes. And two fragile employees of the Karitas patronage service, Irina and Alena, bring it in a small Siberian city.
In Omsk, on one of the streets on the ground floor since 2011, paralyzed Galina Tikhonovna Pirogova lies, who worked for 36 years a paramedic in a city hospital. Galina Tikhonovna Parkinson and progressive muscle atrophy. Of the relatives in the city, only a sister with a severe oncological diagnosis, who is not able to monitor and care for Galina Tikhonovna, would save herself. The body of Galina Tikhonovna does not obey, the muscles almost do not work, there are almost no voices, only a quiet whistle is heard, sometimes similar to howling. In a one -room apartment there is a bed brought by the Caritas patronage service, next to the bed - a nurse of Margarita from social protection.
“And we wrote about the bed, but we didn’t give us,” says Margarita.
- Why didn't they give? I ask.
-Something is wrong with the documents.
I look at an individual rehabilitation plan with seals and signatures of members of the medical commission. Galina Tikhonovna is not laid, but two diapers are relying per day. A couple of years ago, when the muscles obeyed a little more, Galina Tikhonovna, with the help of Margarita, could slowly walk around the room, sit, turn over from her side to her side, and that was not the bed. But muscle atrophy is that progressing that after a few years the human body ceases to be active and mobile and completely loses the ability to move.
“Are you all day with her?” - I ask the nurse.
- No, I am from 9 to 17. So the state pays. 141 ruble 96 kopecks per hour. And at 18 she needs to take pills and eat, another nurse comes to her, but for money. She has to pay this out of her pension. And soon the holidays are New Year's holidays, so I will not work at all ...
“But the disease will not leave, how will it be alone here?”
In response, the nurse shrugs. I understand her, she is not to blame for how the attitude of the system towards people works, she is only a screw in this system.
Galina Tikhonovna Pirogova and nurse of the patronage service Nuril Makzamovna photo: Dmitry Markov for TDBut you will imagine so so that somewhere lies a lonely woman, who is completely alone for more than half a day, has the opportunity to call or click on an alarming button, which, however, is not at all in sight. A woman who tries not to drink much in order to save diapers, because the state considered that she, Galina Tikhonovna, will be enough to go to the toilet twice a day, a woman whom the state does not give a bed, which is not taken to the boarding school, which has lived a long life ... And now it can only dream of death. And he probably dreams, calls, waits, remaining every night alone in his apartment.
The main thing that the employees of the Caritas patronage service do is give hope. The hope that when any of us overtakes misfortune, they will come to the rescue. See you dryly, then employees of the patronage service teach relatives to care for lying patients, lease them for rehabilitation means-chairs, beds, mattresses and so on, until the state does this for them. They visit patients, inspect, consult. And if we say not dryly, then they do a much more important work, they inspire hope for life. Encouraging. They give to fade away life.
The Caritas patronage service has been working for ten years. It works not only in Ishim and Omsk, but also in Kaliningrad, St. Petersburg, Tikhvin, Saratov, Volgograd, Chelyabinsk, Barnaul and Novosibirsk. This year, two more cities with symbolic names were added - Marx and Engels.
For a year, about ten thousand people receive assistance in all centers. Ten thousand such as Galina Tikhonovna and Vladimir Petrovich. Ten thousand people with their personal history, life, hopes and fears. Ten thousand human souls. Living souls. In 2015, the patronage service received 25 thousand appeals and provided 36 thousand services.
In 2015, our charity fund was able to collect more than 55 million rubles to help those in need of people throughout the country. So, I clearly know how my word works. I clearly know how much money I can collect. How many views, how many reposts on the Internet will gain this text. I specifically wrote it as dry as possible. Without sighs and tears. So that there is more rational in your solution than emotional. Calmly and without panic, just think:
A whole year of the Karitas patronage service costs a little more than eight million rubles. The work of the service in 10 cities costs 22 thousand rubles a day. Caring for one lying sick person costs the service of 831 rubles.
Please support the work of the patronage service. Of the smallest amounts are huge results. In 2015, the average donation for our fund amounted to 735 rubles. And we collected more than 50 million.
According to statistics, if you make a donation and tell about it in your social networks, then every fourth of your friends will do the same.
If you arrange a regular donation, then a small amount will be written off from your card every month, which will increase 12 times over the year. And if there will be such as you? thousand? Ten thousand?
It is customary to help before the New Year, because this is a time of happiness and miracles. A miracle will happen if we can help all these people. Now. Today. If they don’t have to guess all year, they will find money to help or will not find.
I beg you very much, help lonely, sick, paralyzed people who really need our support with you in order to become at least a little happier. There are thousands of such people throughout the country. Employees of the Karitas patronage service take care of several thousand of them, and you can help all of them. Satter right now, without putting it off in a long box, any amount and tell your friends about it. It is possible to create a miracle. Everything is in our hands.
Happy New Year!