
Those who explode, by and large, do not need corpses - they need fear
It is very scary - explosions. And not only because your loved ones or friends can be there. Not only because when your child goes to school on the same metro branch, you will be covered by animal horror each time. Not only because you again, once again, will be convinced: before someone else's hatred you are a goal and defenseless. But because at heart you will now know: they won. They won - those who wanted your fear and your helplessness. And how not to be afraid when it can rush at any time anywhere?!
Once, on the way from school, a classmate and I fell into a shootout in the very center of Moscow, in the then passage of the Art Theater (now Camerger Lane). I don’t remember the details-I only remember that some crazy man flew into the representative office of one of the Western airlines, took the employee hostage and began to fade around. My girlfriend and I hut in the porch opposite - good, then no intercoms in nature existed. There was a man with us, who was very annoyed - it seems he was late on a date. But even more he was annoyed by our girlfriend, and he did not find anything better than starting to shout at us: “Stopping immediately to be afraid! I told you - to stop afraid immediately! " Calling in this way to calm even more funny than to lay a child with a scream: “Improve immediately!” The uncle looked so ridiculous with this call that my girlfriend and I rolled with laughter, immediately stopped being afraid and reasonably went down to the basement, throwing idiotic attempts to find a keyhole in the door, so that, overcoming horror, to look at the shootout.
Many years have passed, but I don’t, no, and I will remember that irritable uncle, who, without knowing it, gave the most correct advice at that time.
“There are things more important than fear” Family psychotherapist and head of the master's program for the systemic family psychotherapy of the Higher School of Enterprise Anna Varga - about how not to panic and not feel constant fear"Stop afraid immediately." I repeated these words when I drowned in the sea, and no one on the shore heard my screams. I repeated them when my three -year -old son disappeared in the crowd on Tverskaya. I muttered them under my breath, poking with trembling fingers in the telephone buttons, when an explosion in the subway thundered in Moscow in the place and at the time where and when my adult son was traveling to the institute.
I, like any normal person, do not know how to defeat fear. But sometimes I can agree with him. Fear - he himself is cowardly and awkward, he only pretends to be omnipotent, but actually easily confuses in the gyrus of the brain, like an unlucky parachutist in the slings of the parachute. When Izlin is not enough, fear is free. This is counted by those who rivet home -made bombs. With one hand they rivet the bombs, and with the other they are intensively devastated by our brains, because they know: empty brains are filled with fear than stuffed with knowledge and common sense. As the British say, “An idle brin is the devil's workshop” - “idle brain is the devil's workshop”. Is it because with such zeal we are deprived of territories by step, where they agree to hang a free spirit?
"The idle brain is the workshop of the devil." Is it because with such zeal we are deprived of territories by step, where they agree to hang a free spirit?I remember that 15 years ago, we, journalists who write about culture, complained that a good, smart movie through federal channels showed only closer to midnight. Not much time has passed - and they do not show good cinema on TV at all. At all. As if it ended. Opera, symphonic music, science, historical excursions ended. The enormous educational resource of Russian television was bought to the culinary talk shows, bad series and a hate of hatred-“political” talk shows.
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A person who is not armed with knowledge and does not know how to analyze is blind. More precisely - selectively sight. He sees what is imposed on him to know. A few hours after the explosion in the St. Petersburg metro, photos from video cameras appeared in the media - a person of a textbook Muslim species . Yeah - here he is, the main villain! He, as if he are Kharya, won, how gang! ISIS is to blame for everything, the Muslims unbelted, beat them. Islam is the religion of war, blood and death, a terrible religion. We have all the evil from her. And the Qur'an is a terrible book, there everyone calls for murders.
And after all, it does not occur to anyone to take and read the Qur'an. Well, just to understand what it is - Islam. To find out that there are no evil religions.
Why read if they told us everything and even showed? We were clearly indicated who we need to be afraid, and now the dark skin and the black beard are like Kainov’s seal. It’s scary to imagine what a surge of xenophobia we have to. And all because we, not armed with knowledge and common sense, willingly experience fear of those who were appointed to the villains. After all, they do not want to teach us a real story.
Fear paralyzes the brains. The paralysis of the mind of the whole country is a point of no return for the nation. No need to be afraid of a person with a gun - we must try to disarm him. But for this you need to know a lot - the habitat of the “man with a gun”, his favorite psychological techniques, his weaknesses. You need to know evil in person and learn to draw historical parallels. But for starters, one must learn to distinguish the truth from lies - worse than the enemy than the truth, for fear in the world. And then immediately it will turn out to "immediately stop afraid."
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