Dmitry Chernyshev: "The state is afraid of its people"

"Russia is a paternalist state. It seeks to penetrate all spheres of life, controlling a person and changing him for himself. Let's try to compare the child upbringing with parents with the education of a citizen. To understand how efficiently the state copes with this work," the blogger writes in the Living Journal .

"So, what is necessary for the successful development of the child:

1. Unconditional love. They love the child not because he washed the dishes, carried out the garbage or made lessons. Love is not a deal, love is a necessary condition for survival. They faced this after the First World War, when children who were left without parents began to die in orphanages. They had food, but there was no tactile contact - they lacked love.

How does the state behave? This is not a mother, this is a stepmother. I have never been happy in any state institution. Nobody ever told me - how good that you came to us, how can we help you? I only heard: “There are a lot of you, but I am alone”, “Do not interfere with working,” “That's where you opened the card, here and go there.” Homeland remembered me only when she needed something from me-to pay taxes, to serve in the army, to enter the subbotnik. At the same time, they all the time tried to instill a complex of guilt - it is much easier to manage: “The country raised you, shocked and taught you, and you ...”, “Grandfathers spilled blood for you in the war, and you ...”, “The country is now difficult, it has sanctions, and you ...”

2. Feeling of safety. Good parents create a security zone around the child. The child knows that he can make a mistake, do something wrong, break his mother’s vase and nothing terrible will happen. This is the only way the child can develop-if he falls, he will be raised, if he cannot do something-they will help him if he ruins something, they will fix it.

The state behaves like a crazy paranoid. Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhous! This is impossible, this is not bustling, do not try it. Enemies everywhere! Step to the left is an escape. Everyone hate us - Baltic states, Ukraine, America. Everyone is loaded with our wealth. America dreams of destroying and dissecting us. China dreams of capturing us. Europe dreams of a revolution. Inside is the fifth column. Prohibit! Punish! Plant!

3. Delegation of authority. Smart parents gradually expand the sphere of rights and obligations of the child. I mastered the cleaning of the bed and brushing your teeth - proceed to cleaning toys and cleaning the apartment. He was able to make lessons himself - the rest of the time is completely at your disposal. The child has more duties - so he has more rights. If you educate the child, the child will work out. It is necessary to educate an adult. It can be pressed on a person on both sides - from above and below. Good parents crush from below, helping him develop.

Today's Russian state presses a citizen only from above. It is afraid of its people. He can’t do anything himself - what if he ruins everything. You cannot choose, you can not dispose of taxes, you cannot control power and you cannot change it. It seems that the task of the state is to grow a mentally inferior cretin, which will disappear without him. And which will be doomed to hold on to the hem of such a state. Patriots are not obtained thanks, but contrary to state custody - I love the country, but I hate the state.

4. Creating a favorable environment. Smart parents try to surround the child with the best - good books and good friends. They know that the child will grow the same as them. Therefore, it is necessary not so much to educate the child as to educate himself. Only with your own example - nothing else.

The way our state behaves is monstrous. It constantly violates its own laws. Lying at every step. Kill disagreements with him. Removing the property of citizens. The language that the power speaks with the country is television. Today it is pop, the program “Let them speak” and Zhirinovsky with Solovyov. Such television is created to stun viewer.

Conclusion:

The main Russophobe in the country is today's power. These people are panicky afraid of the people, attributing to him incredible cruelty and stupidity. God forbid, they will change us - the country will choke in the blood. I traveled the whole country and nowhere saw stupidity and cruelty. Unless when crossed with the state. "