Kadyrov in a marriage shop

In Chechnya, a campaign for the restoration of decayed families continues. In early July, the head of the republic Ramzan Kadyrov made such an initiative. "We need to wake people, tell, explain. Return the women who left husbands, reconcile them is our first task," he said. According to Kadyrov, children from incomplete families are more influenced by extremists.

However, according to the site "Caucasus. Reali ", tragicomic cases occur - for example, when a twice divorced woman with children from both marriages does not know which of the ex -husbands to reunite. The mufti does not give an unambiguous answer to this question.

In Chechnya, they began to open headquarters to save marriages: imams, officials and representatives of law enforcement agencies set to draw up lists of diluted ones. Special commissions are engaged in reconciliation of spouses with the participation of religious figures.

What to do to those who, after parting, have already managed to find happiness in a new marriage?

According to the secretary of the citywide headquarters to harmonize the marriage and family relations of the formidable Rasul Upanov , the divorced spouses are invited to the headquarters of each separately and offered to make peace. “If the mullah, who talked with the divorced, sees that at least two percent divorced want to converge, parents are connected,” he says.

In what way the mullah determines these two percent is not reported. It is also not clear whether those citizens who divorced many years ago fall under the recovery program (in other words, is there a statute of limitations). And what to do to those who, after parting, have already managed to find happiness in a new marriage?

In the Muftiyat of Chechnya, no one answered the request of the site "Caucasus. Realii". Deputy Director of the Department for Relations with Religious and Public Organizations of the Administration of the Head and Government of Chechnya Ismail Elmersaev did not want to talk with the editorial office of the editorial office (he dumped phone calls).

In the republic, the next initiative of Ramzan Kadyrov is different. Some believe that reunion is in any case good. In addition, in the North Caucasus, claims Adani from Grozny, there are many men who are interfering with a step to reconciliation (and they seem to be with joy). Others urge the head of Chechnya to engage in their direct duties, and not rush with Instagram for "divorces". Salman , for example, is outraged by the intervention of the republican authorities in his private life:

- Neither the Mufti of Chechnya, nor the mullah know how I lived with my ex -wife. They do not know the reasons for the divorce! Why, then, is imposed on me? If a man, despite the presence of children, divorced, then he had reason!

My interlocutor recalls the story of her friend, whose ex -wife took up fraud and now owe two million rubles to familiar:

He does not need her, but his friend is unable to resist the authorities

- He has no idea what his wife spent this money on! And here the other day, this conciliatory commission brings the ex -wife to his house and announces that they will now live together, ”Salman continues. “He does not need her, but his friend is not able to withstand the authorities.”

According to Salman, his friend set a condition: either he lives with his ex -wife, or loses his job and leaves Chechnya.

- Here they live. Only she is in a separate house, and he is on her territory, says Salman.

Another interlocutor of the site "Caucasus. Reali" is afraid to lose their jobs. He is a civil servant and believes that he must comply with the orders of the authorities. A marriage in which two children were born broke up three years ago. The former spouse recently turned to the "reunite" headquarters. Now it is discussed how many times her husband once said the phrase "I leave you!" While everyone is busy with the interpretation of Sharia (supposedly had to say about the divorce with two witnesses), the official is waiting for his fate.

In the Chechen Internet segment, they are vividly discussed by the story of a twice divorced woman who appealed to a conciliatory commission. She has two children from each marriage. Observers are wondering who will fall the happiness to converge with her - the first or second husband. They put it on the second so far - he took her in his wife with children.

According to the Chechen adams, a man who loves his ex-spray sends relatives to her, and this is how reconciliation happens.

The human rights activist Taus Sergeyova initiators of the company's recovery of families resemble elephants in a bowl shop.

- On the one hand, the reconciliation of the former spouses is a virtuous act. But I am outraged by something else. When a woman remains, for example, a widow, she is kicked out of the house, she is forced to wander ... Why does the power here not intervene in the affairs of the family?

The interlocutor of the site "Caucasus. Realii" calls on the authorities to start studying the causes of divorces. What if the husband drinks, sits on his wife’s neck, beats the household? Or if a woman behaves immorally?

In general, there is a feeling of absurdity of what is happening

Serganova does not like the communist enthusiasm, with whom the mufti and officials undertook to melt the already extinguished family foci. It turns out that children, and families, and their good are now common. She is embarrassed by the authorities to reunite.

- The authorities in Chechnya ended with drug addicts, alcoholics, road violators. Now she took up the decayed families. Someone giggles from my acquaintances, listening to this commission, someone is outraged, but in general there is a common feeling of the absurdity of what is happening, ”says the human rights activist.

For two months, the “restoration commissions” managed to “glue” 1180 families decaying earlier. A new order was received: in the near future, reunite another 1000 pairs.