The nanny washed Dan

Three months ago, Danya rolled a tantrum when he heard the noise of water, and today he could not take him away from the sink. Over the past six months, a three -year -old boy fell in love with washing, learned to send air kisses, tried the Kozinaki. Because Dani has Katya - the nanny of the project “I want to on the arms” of the Krasnoyarsk BF “Happy Children”

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He does this procedure with me ten times: dipping a brush in a glass of clean water, pronounces “grab”, carries a glass into the toilet, lifts the toilet lid, pours “dirty” water, pushes the prefix to the sink, climbs the tap, washes a glass and pours fresh water. Washes carefully, for a long time. Proud, important.

“Danechka, enough, and if you get used to it, we’ll go to the ward,” says the nanny Katya.

Katya Dania obeys, but not right away.

“This is our victory. When I decided to wash it in the first meeting, he shouted so that I thought: probably something hurts, maybe a problem with the seams, ”says the nanny Ekaterina Goncharova. - asked the nurse - no, I was simply not used to the water. "

Danya is a patient of the oncological department. He lies here for the fourth time. The hospital is renovated, bright, clean. There are cozy chambers, pleasant staff, there are playing and even hospital clowns come. In December, the boy arrived for treatment from another city with his mother, and after the parents left him in the orphanage - get better, son.

From the diary of the nanny

“The first day:
We get acquainted. Anya cries a lot, the dream is intermittent, there is no temperature. The mood corresponds to the diagnosis. The baby has no hearing. Serious faults. Sanitary and hygienic measures were carried out. Eating milk, vegetable does not perceive. We lie on the tummy, take drug treatment. By the end of the day, she began to smile. "

Not one

If it weren’t for the “I want pens” program, Danya would be in the ward alone. Nurses, of course, would help him - "provided proper treatment, nutrition and the necessary hygienic care." But most of the day the boy would lay on the bed and cried - Katya found him for the first time.
She tells how he was scared, did not want to communicate, was afraid of everything: “Orphanages can almost never allocate to the child to the hospital. It seems to many: what is it, and home children sometimes alone in hospitals. Even the staff, nurses did not immediately take us. But the difference is huge. Orphans are not adapted to life, to society, communication. Often they speak poorly, they cannot explain what they want, they do not have the necessary communication skills. Sometimes children from the orphanage have to learn to hold a spoon. You come to such children for the first time, they just lie on the bed and do not want to do anything. It's scary. "

Katya and Danya photo: Galina Katerinich

The nannies of the fund not just take care of children, they play with them in developing games, teach alphabet, words, account. And they must keep a diary where they write about everything that happened to the child in a day. Such rules, and notes are needed for another shift.

From the diary of the nanny

"Day third:
There are no more tears, but is capricious. Most importantly, there is contact! We introduced the treatment plan: electrophoresis, injections, dressings, etc.. We take air baths. At the request of the doctor, we make a light massage of the buttocks, the gases began to leave. He feels much better, calmer, smiles. We talk, sing songs. Temperature: 37.5, said to the doctor. She dripped two and a half hours at lunch. I processed nails, ears. Test analysis. "

A real peasant

Katya shows me a Dani's diary. Four columns: well -being - mood - what he did - a note. Among the obligatory nuances - about the “chair”, “ate good \ bad”, “temperature” - there is always: “he painted and decorated the rainbow himself,“ “asked to draw a butterfly, gave the girl in the ward,” “loves sweets, they lie in the nightstand.”

It seems that no one knows as much about Dana as Katya: “He always eats himself. He does not eat milk porridge in the morning, but loves soup, potatoes, buckwheat - a real peasant. He brought him a marshmallow, did not like it. And Kozinaki - yes. Loves massage very much: because of chemistry, the skin is dry, after the shower I smear it with cream, and it buzz. There is no habit of fairy tales. It can look through, see animals, but in general, indifferent to books. ”

The shifts of the nanny last 12 hours: from 8.00 to 20.00, and although they pass in the square of the chambers, are different. “Wakes up, wash, change the diaper, breakfast, then bypass doctors. Many interns come to Dan - they look, listen, feel their stomach. ” Then the day depends on the mood of the child. If there was chemistry, the baby only needs to lie down, take refuge, find a person to whom he trusts, and doze. If the dropper is not appointed, they go to the game, and here there are always small discoveries and achievements of tribute: collects puzzles, mosaics, teaches new words, actions. Every day he says more and more syllables: ka - porridge, cha - tea. And this is a success. “In the evening again the shower-scammer. Hugs your favorite worm and falls asleep. It's funny, but before leaving, I always wash his beloved jacket, so he wants to wear her - in the morning we put on her again. ”

Katya and Danya photo: Galina Katerinich

Danya frankly with her nanny, rarely, but emotionally tells about the family: “We somehow read a book about fishing, and suddenly he thought, began to talk; I realized that he and dad went to fish, that “there” was mom and dad, brother, that he would go to them later. ” The family “there” - 400 kilometers from Krasnoyarsk - really is, but in six months no one has ever asked the boy’s health.

From the diary of the nanny

"Day fifth:
I began to eat very well. Daytime sleep three hours. Praise passes. Light massage of the back, buttocks. The procedures are experiencing heroically. We are engaged in actively pronouncing sounds. The feeling that he hears me well and understands me ... reacts to a voice, smiles. Maybe after all, everything is in order with hearing? I transmitted the information to the doctor. "

Become infected with compassion

The nanny is in project 10, mostly young, like Katya. She is 25 years old, by education - an engineer. Six months ago, she gave her daughter to kindergarten and decided to try herself in charity: I learned about the program, went through training and stayed.

The native new Katina cannot yet be accepted: “They think that it is all strange, dangerous, you can get infected, it is better to find another job, stay away“ from this ”. Only my daughter supports mom, always asks: "Who did you sit with today, and he recovered?"

About such a reaction of society surrounding the nannies, which every new employee passes in the school. Be sure to talk about studying about special children. “Children are different, not always such as Danya, often heavy: they do not see, do not hear, immobilized. Then there is already a completely different job, more tactile contact, stroking, so that the child feels that someone is nearby, ”says Katya. - Such children are fragile, they are easy to bring them to emotions, instantly crying, the scream begins. The tantrum can result in death. You need to be very calm, monitor the condition. Or completely kids, I somehow sat with a one and a half year old girl, adenoids were removed, and after the operation she just wanted to hug, feel her breasts and rest. ”

From the diary of the nanny

"Day of the eighth:
Analyzes are normal. Extract on hand. Anechka looks cheerful, continues to burst. The course of treatment is long, so I will see you again soon. Things have been collected. There are many funds for care and hygiene, I will leave for the future. Bodra, collects a house from the designer. "

Katya and Danya play photos: Galina Katerinich

Dani has good prospects: he must get better. The play of words and meanings, but Katya hopes that they will no longer meet, because this means that the boy may return home ... Moreover, Dana already has something to brag: how he washes his head, collects a mosaic, opens a crane. Not afraid of water. And maybe dad will take him fishing again.

Over the three years of the existence of the project “I want on pens” of the Krasnoyarsk Charity Fund “Happy Children” with their nannies in the reception chambers and wards, 133 children met. In the two weeks that the baby spends on average in the hospital, with a nanny he will learn as much as sometimes in the orphanage in the orphanage. But the main thing is that the child does not remain alone, does not feel abandoned, deprived of attention and care.

The project exists on donations: money is needed for care funds, diapers, medicines, but the largest and largest cost item is the salary of nannies. An hour of special care of a sick child from an orphanage is estimated at 152 rubles with taxes. The price of a cupsino cup. Please, sacrifice this cup once a month, subscribe to a monthly payment - so that such babies as Dania had its own nanny.

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