"You are wandering her, slap - she is already writing"

According to Levada Center, more than 30 % of Russians prefer not to discuss sexual problems in their families. At the same time, abroad, supporters of the development of sex industry are developing with silicone dolls with might and main and believe that the spread of realistic artificial partners can reduce the number of rape. In fact, in Russia, everything is also not so depressing: on avito, people resell a sex doll for each other and even find a replacement for permanent partners in them. The RANEPA student Timofey Tarasenko met those who preferred silicone flesh of the present, and wrote an exciting study on how the love and passion of Russians are arranged.

The intimate zone of the girl of Sergey smelled of sprats. He put up with this for seven years. No matter how much she washed, the smell still remained. Now Sergey has realistic silicone sex dolls, and they do not smell.

Sergey is 53 years old. It makes money that he transports and sells the cigarettes to the NEXT tobacco company in markets. He has been working by car since 1986. Then he was a taxi driver. After that, he still managed to work as a carrier of products that gained popularity in the nineties-like Chupa-Chups-and the driver of the collection of an armored car. In his youth, Sergei served in the Navy.

He independently repair his rowing simulator - fasteners for the legs fell off on it, so, having covered with instruments, Sergey sits on the floor and attaches the fasteners in place. He trains on it twice a day - in the morning and evening. Sergei generally likes to work with his hands.
“Close a nail - good,” he believes. - Lying like [lazy] male is bad.

Last summer, he tried to plant flowers in the courtyard of his nine -story buildings, but they were trampled by people walking with dogs. The next summer he will try again. According to him, the neighbors are grateful to him for these attempts. He also willingly repair plumbing, even if he is visiting. But he does not like to wash the floors. Almost every surface in its apartment is covered with a thin layer of dust.

Sergei was born in Moscow and loves her very much, especially areas with Stalin's architecture. He did not like Zaryadye. In the summer, he rests on the channel in the old part of Himki, in places where there are no many people. It is rarely chosen abroad. Including because it does not tolerate planes. Sergey loves cartoons. Especially the "Shrek" and "Masha and the Bear." On the wall in his dining room there is a picture depicting him along with a little son in a cartoon style of coastal artists Anapa. On the table is a picture of a son in army uniform. In the bedroom - a plate with his own photo and the inscription "Antalya". Two meters from the plate on a chair, a sex doll without a head is sitting.

In the place where there should be a head, a hole gapes. A massive breast is bulging a little below. Short fingers can bend - these are wires with silicone coating. There are no wires in the fingers on the legs, so they hang out like the legs of rubber toy spiders, which purchase supermarkets on the eve of Halloween. On the right side of the doll is a seam. Sergei, along with his friend, opened her to strengthen the skeleton. Her skeleton is a metal frame with hinges and two transverse crossbars located in the place of hips and shoulders. The design allows you to bend the doll in different ways. Hands, legs, elbows, knees, lower back - all this is mobile due to hinges.

Some owners of sex doll give them names. Sergei did not even think of doing this, but ClimaxDoll manufacturers have already done it for him. Her name is Josie.

She was born at a factory in the Chinese city of Guangzhou. Her skeleton was loaded into a large shape, almost accurately repeating the pose of the heroes of the film “Kin-dza-dza”, which they accompanied the greeting “Ku!”: The legs spread out in the semi-decrease and bent overwhelmed hands. Then this form was filled with silicone and left to solidify. Josie is a standard model, but the manufacturer offers a wide range of modifications.

The video is filmed, as the Chinese in blue robes work concentrated in the factory, tables and racks are littered with the heads of dolls. Some of the heads have already been painted, artists are carefully trying to gently try, drawing eyebrows and lips to them. Freshly manufactured bodies hang on hooks, like pork carcasses in a refrigerator. They are waiting in the wings - they will have painting, polishing, processing and checking for marriage. Chinese workers are engaged in all this manually.

With a glove with a glove, Josie pressed a glass brown eye. The color was chosen by Sergey. He also wanted the doll to be slightly tanned - and pale silicone was painted with dark paint.
- [When choosing] he paid attention to his chest and ass. And the face, of course, ”he says.

Some dolls are glued to the pubis, the customer can even choose the thickness of the hairline. Josie did not stick anything - Sergey loves shaved. A blonde wig with slightly curled hair was attached to her head. The fingers in the hands were decorated with a white manicure, and the nails on the legs were painted in a dark red color. Josie is ready. A brown -eyed blonde tall 1 meter 60 centimeters with disproportionately large breast lies in a dense box, wrapped in foam and ready for everything. First of all, to send to Moscow.

This is the first sex doll of Sergey. He ordered it from China about six months ago. A box without marking was brought on a truck to the “South Gate” market. Sergey called and said that the goods arrived. Then he arrived, loaded it into his Opel and drove home. It was not difficult to bring a 55-kilogram box into the apartment-Sergey lives on the ground floor. From the front door to the left - the bathroom, where he carried Josie immediately after he removed from the box. There he thoroughly washed her.
“And he began to shampoo it,” says Sergey. - You are wandering her, slapping her - she is already squealing. Yes, and in three different holes you can poke a member. The silicone itself is oily, so when you are wandered, then the sound is quiet. Yes, and the member in the holes is compressed very tightly, and the lubricant splashes when you poke.

The joy of acquiring was short -lived. When Sergey spread his leg doll, her skeleton broke. The metal tubes of which the frame consist of were hollow and too thin, so they could not stand even the first time.

Sergei earns about thirty thousand a month, and Josie cost him 120,000 rubles, but turned out to be defective. Silicon-doll.ru offers to buy a sex doll in installments. There are also seasonal New Year shares. There was even a discount in honor of Black Friday - 20 %. The man, however, did not use any promotions: saying that he needed money for car repair, he took them from his mother.

Sergei decided to try to compensate for the damage by writing a complaint to the manufacturer. He described in detail the problem, and in confirmation shot the video.

The joy of acquiring was short -lived. Когда Сергей разводил кукле ноги, её скелет сломался

Meanwhile, he wanted to repair a defective body. For the sake of this, he came to his friend and brought the doll. Together they came up with the design of the structure, inserting thick tubes into the hollow. During the repair, there was another person - a friend of a friend of Sergei. “He was indignant and commented on:“ Only fagots fuck such garbage! ” And the eyes are on the boobs. So I would like to blow her, ”says Sergey.

They managed to fix the skeleton, then they inaccurately sewn the doll side. The design could again function, and the only thing that reminded of marriage was a large seam. But the complaint also had its fruit. The manufacturer sent a new body.

Sergei took off his head from a defective doll and rearranged him to a new one. Then he bought another doll of the same model - for resale. He had a discount of 10,000 rubles for her. Thus, Sergey had three sex dolls: one defective and without a head and two completely new ones.

He sold one of the new for 90,000 rubles, although he bought for 110,000 - he could not sell more. The rest still remain with him. Sergey plans to resell and defective. He wants to buy a separate head separately, to make a better incision in the right side and sell more expensive. In the meantime, offers it for 30,000 rubles: "Suddenly, someone is needed as a masturbator."

The idea of ​​resale did not bring Sergei profit. He understands that he did not even pay for the recovery. Reluctantly says about this, hiding the recognition of failure behind a stretched smile. In his opinion, it is very difficult to sell a realistic sex doll in Russia.

He associates this with the fact that many are inconvenient to keep a doll the size of a person in their own apartment. Anonymous user of the Archive forum, after acquiring a sex doll, wrote a post where he listed its pros and cons. “Well, the main problem is its storage. Under it I had to rent an apartment for 30 thousand a month! Otherwise, how to store her in his house, where can someone come to visit or just go into the room? It is impossible to hide it physically because of the dimensions. ”

Sergei leaves no hope and continues to upload ads on the sale of VKontakte in the thematic groups from the former page of his son, as well as on forums dedicated to various sexy fetishes. On one of these sites - the BTORG announcement website - its announcement is adjacent to offers to buy condoms with sperm and the sale of worn female panties and used gaskets.

Sergei does not do this. Before sale, he will wash the doll. There are dolls with removable vaginas, it is easier to wash them. But he is not like that, so he is a little more complicated.
- Rinse the hose from the shower, then soap your hand, climb - and that’s it.

The maximum amount that he was offered for a headless doll is 20,000 rubles. For this money, he does not agree to give her to. Sergei curses and says that this is the price of a miniature sex doll, and not such that the size of human growth. Even despite the defect.
Sergei does not like miniature dolls and does not understand the people who acquire them.

Firstly, he considers this a manifestation of pedophile inclinations, especially when it comes to dolls the size of a child. Some sex dolls face and physique are really similar to girls ..
- I do not understand how men are fucking. 140 centimeters - small, well, the child is completely. Or buy a doll of 60 centimeters. Where is there to poke a mound?
Secondly, Sergey preferred girls older than himself since childhood.

He grew up in a family without a father and never saw him. He was raised by his grandmother and mother, who gave birth to her son when she was seventeen. Sergey grew up a mischievous boy. He loved to walk in basements and construction sites, where the builders could shoot a cigarette. He smoked his first goby when he was five years old, and he began to smoke at eleven. He especially liked to walk around the landfill, where the tobacco factory dropped defective cigarettes. He often returned home dirty and wet, for which he was poured. When Sergei was a teenager, his mother told him: “Walk wherever you want, but don’t drag home a woman.”

In early 2017, Levada-Center published the results of a survey dedicated to topics taboo in Russian families. 33 % of respondents replied that they never discuss sex and sexual problems in the family.

In the family of Sergei, it was also not customary to talk on these topics. He learned the details of sexual life from classmates. His mother often bought and brought home balloons home. And he loved to rub about them.
“I don’t even remember how the first time I went to the ball,” says Sergey.

He rubbed the penis on the balls and experienced sexual satisfaction. He tactilely liked the material and a characteristic creak. He also tried to rub on balls and mattress, but he wanted something softer. Now he has dolls, and he likes them much more. But in the closet he stores a ball in the form of a bagel and from time to time uses it.

At school, he had sexual fantasies about teachers.

Sergey’s first sex happened to a woman who was about fifty years old. He was twenty -three, and a year and a half he did not even know about the age of his companion. With warmth in his voice, he admits that he loves wise and delicate women. Such with whom there is something to talk about. He also likes women who have children.

Relations with the girls who were younger than him, Sergey had only twice. And they limited themselves to one or two dates.

According to Sergey, he had at least fifty women in his whole life. But he does not consider this an achievement.

The first sex shop of Russia opened in St. Petersburg in 1992. The next year the store appeared in Moscow.

According to Sergey, rubber sex dolls began to be sold in 1995. Since then, Sergey bought more than thirty pieces. The cheapest cost 900 rubles, he bought some for three to seven thousand. They did not serve him for a long time, so Sergey considers the purchase of a silicone doll to the purchase of a silicone doll.
- I thought: this is how you put up the price [of all dolls purchased since 1995] - it turns out, it is more profitable to buy silicone. At first they cost about five thousand dollars expensive. And how we got down, I said to myself: either now, or never.

Sergey does not regret spending on dolls:
The man is very glad that there are realistic sex dolls. He would like to try models with voice and heating, but he has a basic model. Therefore, when heating is turned off in the Khrushchevs, it heats the doll in a hot bath.

Sergey likes porn comics about Vovan, and especially one picture. It depicts a man who has sex with a woman who is almost twice as many of him. It is not complete and not high, just a man next to her looks like a reduced copy of the present. A cloud is drawn over his head, which usually happens in comics. It says there: “It’s hard for me to believe that I *** (I have sex with her)! It's just super. "

Large older women have always attracted Sergey, although he does not like full.
- I like to imagine that I am a little boy, and she is a big aunt. Therefore, I want more - voluminous, large.

His tastes in pornography are also very unusual. In the drawings that excite it, a variety of women are drawn, but all of them are united by one thing: large disproportionate forms. Chest, which is several times more; about the same hips; Bruttered, as if swollen, vaginas. Sergey wants to produce a sex doll with the same bodies.

He tried to order one such specific model from the Chinese manufacturer Guangzhouhongyitoy, but not silicone, but inflatable. Inflatables are much cheaper. But the company put up a price of $ 150 (about 9,000 rubles) - and Sergey refused.

He says that he has a lot of ideas, and only an ally is not enough for the embodiment.
- I wanted to find people who would start the production of dolls with me. But people are notorious, ”explains Sergey.

Silicon-Doll site attendance-about seven thousand people a month. “VKontakte” signed 72 people to their group. This store is trying to attract customers in different ways. They have an Instagram account and the YouTube channel, where they laid out the rollers. In line with the latest trends, they accept the world card to pay. How many people out of seven thousand a month are ordered a doll is unknown. The store manager refused to answer.

The representative of the Climax-doll.com store, where Sergey ordered dolls, said that the most orders were in the United States: about four hundred came from New York a month. In Moscow, the store sells about two hundred dolls monthly.

In China, every year on November 11, Lonely Day takes place-the main event of the Chinese online shopping. According to Theindependent, last year the manufacturer of the sex doll, which wished to remain anonymous, for this day sold about five hundred dolls. This is about one sale per minute for an eight -hour working day.

In October, a resident of Blagoveshchensk bought a realistic sex doll in Japan. He paid 250 thousand rubles for it, but for him it was not a waste, but an investment. He planned to rent a doll for men who find it difficult to get acquainted with women. The Annunciation placed an ad on Avito and indicated hourly payment - 750 rubles per hour. They began to call him, but not in order to rent a doll.
- This is new for us. People call, joke, go, but so far no one has taken it. Most perceive it as a joke. We have not been instituted with us, ”the man told ASN24 to the publication.

There were no clients, and the Annunciation decided to sell the doll at least a little more than he bought.

Meanwhile, a resident of the German city Dortmund opened a whole brothel with sex dolls instead of prostitutes. She called him Bordoll. The institution is popular, despite a fairly high price. During the hour of using the Madame doll, it takes 80 euros (about 5500 rubles). According to her, per day, one doll can be rented up to twelve people, the Dailymirror reported. The hostess of the brothel said that a variety of people use the services of sex and from the unemployed to the judges. And some even come with wives.

Supporters of the development of the sex doll industry believe that silicone women can reduce the amount of rape and the level of prostitution, wrote in Theindependent. Opponents are sure that sex dolls are another case of objectification of women, a way to make a woman an object.
- Some say: it is better to rape robots than real people. Others-that this will only spur rapids to action, ”says Professor Noel Sharki, a specialist in artificial intelligence, commenting on Theindependent, about the appearance of robotic sex dolls programmed for“ frigidity ”on the market.

Порноактриса Эла Дарлинг, занимающаяся разработками в области виртуального порно, считает, что роботизированные секс-куклы, производство которых активно развивается в США, кардинально изменят рынок интимных услуг. У людей отпадёт нужда в порнографии, а физиологические потребности будут удовлетворять высокотехнологичные секс-куклы.

Сергей не считает проституцию плохой профессией и с уважением относится к девушкам, занятым в этой сфере. Он ласково называет их «путаночками», а во времена своей работы таксистом не раз пользовался их услугами. Некоторые расплачивались сексом за поездку.
— Мы подъезжаем, они делают то, что мы хотим. Бывает, сделают такое, что жена не станет, — с восхищением в голосе говорит Сергей, хотя и не пользуется услугами «путаночек» около десяти лет.

Уже четыре года Сергей встречается с женщиной и любит её. Хотя формально они не в браке, мужчина называет её женой. Он не изменяет ей: «Она — «ненасытыш». Мне полностью хватает её, к другой и не пойду».

Его жена — улыбчивая и подтянутая женщина, ей 58 лет. Она блондинка со слегка завивающимися волосами. В целом, похожа на учительницу английского языка. Она действительно преподавала, но только в музыкальной школе. Они с Сергеем живут отдельно, но каждые выходные он приезжает к ней в гости. У неё тоже есть свои дети от предыдущих отношений. Когда они приходят в её квартиру погостить, она торопится закрыть дверь в свою комнату. Там на стуле сидит вторая Джози.
— Она [женщина Сергея] очень возбудимая. Я её однажды посадил на надутый презерватив — и от приятных ощущений она моментально кончила. А здесь целая реальная кукла. Для неё это ещё круче! — радуется Сергей. — Мне очень нравится, когда она трётся об неё и целует. Как будто две женщины.

Не все женщины Сергея были такими понимающими. Жена, от которой у него сын, не ценила личное пространство членов семьи. Будучи в браке, Сергей злоупотреблял спиртным. Они развелись, когда сыну было двенадцать лет. Тогда же мужчина бросил пить. Сын остался жить с ним.

Вскоре после этого Сергей подарил сыну резиновую куклу. На тот момент Сергей находился в отношениях с женщиной, с которой пробыл вместе семь лет после развода. Она негативно относилась к тому, что отец с сыном увлекаются куклами.
— Она кричала: «Вот педики, пидарасы!»

Сергей старается уважительно и на равных общаться с сыном, ставя себя на его место. Например, он никогда не полезет в письменный стол сына.
— Говорю ему: «У меня в молодости не было с кем посоветоваться. Ты подходи, спрашивай», — так Сергей разговаривает с сыном о сексе.

Сын использовал подаренную секс-куклу, но не мыл после сеансов. От этого в шкафу, где он её хранил, она начала гнить.
— Такой вонизм стоял! После этого он как-то не подходит к куклам, — вспоминает отец.

Сын Сергея избежал расспросов, запершись в своей комнате. Ему двадцать один год, он недавно вернулся из армии и сейчас ищет работу.

Со своей женщиной Сергей очень ласков.
— Никогда не отношусь к женщинам с пренебрежением, — рассказывает Сергей.

Он любит долгие прелюдии, а после секса охотно лежит с ней и обнимается. С трепетом вспоминает, как летом на канале в Химках она спускалась к воде и радостно плескалась как ребенок.
— А иногда кулачки так сожмёт и скажет: «Хочу в тебя зарыться!» - continues Sergey.

Он не одобряет БДСМ, потому что не хочет причинять любимому человеку боль. В сексуальной жизни со своей женщиной Сергей очень аккуратен. Он не использует физическую силу. Для этого у него есть секс-кукла.
— Поставил женщину раком. Навалишься — позвоночник сломать можешь. А кукляре как дам по сиськам, чтоб она трепыхалась. Она именно для того, чтобы навалиться. С живым человеком же так не сделаешь.

«Cиликоновые женщины могут снизить количество изнасилований и уровень распространения проституции»

Президент Национального института сексологии доктор медицинских наук Лев Щеглов считает, что секс-куклы — это просто прибор для удовлетворения физиологических потребностей и ничего плохого в них не видит: «Если психически здоровый человек использует секс-куклу как способ удовлетворить временное любопытство — это нормально. Он также может использовать её как дополнение к своей сексуальной жизни. Это просто усовершенствованный механизм для мастурбации: если в период Древней Индии для этого создавались специальные масла, то спустя 2000 лет эти приспособления просто стали сильнее соответствовать духу времени».

Датский фотограф Бенита Маркуссен три года назад сделала фотопроект о мужчинах, живущих с секс-куклами. Вот что она написала в предисловии:
«„Тебе не страшно?“ — это была самая популярная реакция, когда я рассказывала про план сделать репортаж о людях, которые живут с куклами. Но мне было не только любопытно, как устроены эти куклы. Я также надеялась, что мой проект поможет избавиться от предубеждений к таким людям».

В Великобритании Бенита нашла мужчину, который живёт с женой, двумя дочерьми и четырьмя секс-куклами. Ещё один герой её репортажа не смог найти женщину после смерти своей жены — и купил куклу, которая чем-то на неё похожа. Там же она встретилась с обладателем самой большой коллекции секс-кукол в мире — больше двухсот искусственных женщин. Жена поддерживает его, а зарабатывают они на продаже аксессуаров для кукол. Также в Великобритании каждый год проходит встреча крупного интернет-сообщества любителей секс-кукол DollForum.

Сергей считает, что в России реалистичные секс-куклы непопулярны, потому что для русских мужчин тот, кто занимается сексом с кем-то или чем-то, кроме женщин, — не настоящий мужчина.
— Это бравада такая: мол, я мужик, а вы все не мужики.

Он считает, что людей, которые не мастурбируют, не существует. Поэтому, в теории, секс-куклы должны быть интересны каждому.
— Подари хоть спортсмену. Будет отнекиваться, но нет-нет да полезет [в куклу].
Каждый день в 21:00 у Сергея по расписанию занятие на спортивном тренажёре, стоящем у него на кухне. Он садится на пол, приделывает крепление и начинает упражняться. Ритмичными движениями делает несколько подходов. В метре от него ещё долго будет стоять стена из консервов, которые Сергей ест, когда ему лень готовить. На круглых золотистых баночках чёрная этикетка. Золотыми буквами на ней написано: «Крупные шпроты».
— Хотелось, чтобы подошли и сказали, — Сергей сделал характерное движение бровями и понизил голос: «Пойдём…»
— Вообще интимная сторона у меня на первом месте. Удовольствие превыше всего.

Текст и иллюстрации подготовлены студентами РАНХиГС в рамках издания студенческого журнала «ШАГ» бакалавриата журналистики факультета Liberal Arts.

Самиздат также выражает благодарность за появление этого текста Александру Горбачёву. Саша, спасибо!