What else does shame look like in your opinion? You dream that you find yourself on the street without pants. You are trying to cover up something at the same time, and at the same time you are pretending that nothing special is happening, trying to give your face some kind of equanimity. You stumble, babble and are aggressive at the same time. You feel hot with shame. Shame is one of the great feelings that is underestimated and underdescribed by art. The shame is total.