The modest charm of the norm
On one of the dating sites there is an advertisement for a girl from Nizhny Tagil: “A smart, attractive, self-sufficient, sexy girl wants to meet a smart, handsome, decent, self-sufficient young man for a serious relationship.” Very subtle: the girl is attractive, and the young man must be handsome (i.e., beauty is not required, let there be at least minimal charm); the girl is sexy, and the man needs a decent one (logical).