OK, you have HIV, and it’s not very easy, but I want to continue living with you, and it’s important for me to understand how we will do this. What depends on me? How can I help? Good afternoon. My partner was diagnosed with HIV. As soon as he found out, we started having less sex. He has been gone for 10 months now. This is due to the fact that he says that he doesn’t want to, he doesn’t have excitement. When I touch him, his body begins to twist and becomes unpleasant for him.