"We must choose life"

09–13.06.2014

The New Times continues to monitor the fate of a person who has a deadly diagnosis*

If you were told that the next day is the last in your life, how would you start it? So I would get up, washed, brushed my teeth. As usual. This is me to the fact that even such news cannot cross out the previous life with its goals and meanings. So, when in 2011 I was firmly told that I have cancer and that they would treat chemotherapy and radiation, I began to meticulously interrogate the doctors about how I later had a healthy child.
The doctor sighed, climbed into his notes somewhere and issued information about the Scientific Center for Obstetrics and Gynecology, in which it is possible to preserve sperm in liquid nitrogen for subsequent use of it with extracorporation fertilization (ECO). The matter was not very cheap. Then, when I was lying in Ronz, one evening I talked for a long time with oncogematologists about how to protect reproductive functions in cancer patients who need to go through chemotherapy and radiation courses for treatment. It turned out that women can be protected quite effectively. It is possible, but when it came to include such protection in the chemotherapy protocol, the Ministry of Health has completed the project - too expensive. As a result, few young women know that cancer is not cancer, but they could give birth if they thought about it in advance, and the doctors would have said about that. The situation with men is even worse: even if the reproductive function is preserved, no one guarantees genetics. That is why I took care of everything in advance, before the liters of any chemical rubbish were pushed into me and walked many times in me.
By the way, it is forbidden to choose the floor of the child in most countries of the world, but the doctors, smiling cheerfully, warn of the high probability of the birth of the twins. This is true for modern technologies of eco-waxing (the so-called child from a test tube), simpler paths for families with the history of oncology are not desirable, given the value of the preserved material.
"Twins? “Masha smiles:“ I always wanted a lot of children. ” I also smile, but it’s still more difficult for me to think about this prospect: I have a younger sister and an older brother. And Masha has just two younger twin sisters.
But whoever tell me that we decided that we will have a child, everyone grabs the heart: “Well, how so! And if relapse?! But it's so difficult! "
Not difficult. Not scary. And even if relapse.
Especially - if relapse.
Because between life and death you always need to choose life. And this choice is not the result of some logical analysis for me, it is the same natural thing as wake up, wash and brush your teeth. So it is for Masha. And so we are a happy family.

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